• Stick to your budget. This guarantees that you will stay out of debt and be stress-free when you return from your honeymoon.
• Get it in writing. Written, as opposed to verbal, agreements are a critical part of working with wedding vendors and service providers. Insist that everyone put their agreement in writing and keep a copy in a safe place.
• Delegate as much as possible so that you are not burnt-out on your big day.
• Eat a healthy breakfast. The day is a busy one, full of activity, and a good dose of nourishment early on will not only get you moving, but keep your energy levels where they need to be.
• Keep your perspective. Going from single to married undoubtedly causes a wee bit of panic, jitters, and thoughts of ‘what have I done?’ in all of us. Don’t panic. This is completely normal.
• Take your time and don’t forget to breathe deeply.
• Go with the flow. Staying flexible is your best defense against unwanted stress and disappointment.
• Stay open minded. Others will have ideas they want to contribute, and these could be special idiosyncrasies that will make your day more unique and memorable.
• Show your appreciation to all who help organize and expedite your wedding day. Each and every one of them feel they have made a significant contribution and want to be assured that you are pleased.
• Pamper yourself. Take the day before your wedding off and treat yourself to a manicure, lunch with friends, a tanning session, and some quiet time.
• Get to bed early so you are well rested and refreshed in the morning.
• Expect a few bloopers and you will be pleased when all goes swimmingly.
