• Plan your budget. The first and most critical step to planning a wedding is knowing what you want to spend. Know who is paying for what and have a specific plan. As your big day gets closer, you do not want to have to worry about how you are going to pay for all of your expenses.

• Stick to your budget. This guarantees that you will stay out of debt and be stress-free when you return from your honeymoon.

• Get it in writing. Written, as opposed to verbal, agreements are a critical part of working with wedding vendors and service providers. Insist that everyone put their agreement in writing and keep a copy in a safe place.

• Delegate as much as possible so that you are not burnt-out on your big day.

• Eat a healthy breakfast. The day is a busy one, full of activity, and a good dose of nourishment early on will not only get you moving, but keep your energy levels where they need to be.

• Keep your perspective. Going from single to married undoubtedly causes a wee bit of panic, jitters, and thoughts of ‘what have I done?’ in all of us. Don’t panic. This is completely normal.

• Take your time and don’t forget to breathe deeply.

• Go with the flow. Staying flexible is your best defense against unwanted stress and disappointment.

• Stay open minded. Others will have ideas they want to contribute, and these could be special idiosyncrasies that will make your day more unique and memorable.

• Show your appreciation to all who help organize and expedite your wedding day. Each and every one of them feel they have made a significant contribution and want to be assured that you are pleased.

• Pamper yourself. Take the day before your wedding off and treat yourself to a manicure, lunch with friends, a tanning session, and some quiet time.

• Get to bed early so you are well rested and refreshed in the morning.

• Expect a few bloopers and you will be pleased when all goes swimmingly.